Sicarii hailed Sussetorte on March 31st, 2009. He was a sophomore in college in
Wisconsin. I was a senior in college in Missouri. I was wary of a long distance
relationship, but my mother always told me to give a guy a chance. So I did. On a whim,
I few up a couple weeks later to meet this awesome geek. He admitted that my love of
Firefly had drawn him to my profile. We hit it off, and he asked me to be his girlfriend at
the end of April. We'd fly back and forth between Missouri and Wisconsin each month. A
brutal way to be a couple, but we thought each other worth it.
Soon our fondness of each other turned to love, which we expressed that January. After
he graduated in 2011, he moved down to Missouri (much to the tearful sadness of his
mother, a wonderful woman). Just a short couple weeks after moving, he asked me to
marry him. The only possible answer was Yes! June 1st we were married in front of
friends, family, and yes, his tearful mother. Our Jamaican honeymoon was a welcome
break from wedding planning.
We love being married even though it's been less than a month. At times it feels surreal,
like it's just so wonderful it couldn't be true. Our friends constantly comment on how gut
wrenching our PDA is. We don't even notice. I have had several strangers comment on
how we couldn't possibly have been together for over 3 years as we still act like a young
couple in the first blush of a new relationship. We hope that never changes. We
promised each other love, honor, and cherishing for always, and each day, we renew
that covenant. We've never been happier in our lives, and we never would have found
each other without Soulgeek.com.
Thank you soulgeek. Thank you Dino.
Love and Gratitude Always,
Sussetorte & Sicarii
