katdupasht: Social Challenges and Deal Breakers
Social Challenges and Deal Breakers
My currently known social challenges are autism, anxiety, depression, and PTSD (trigger is domestic violence). I do not do spoken conversation reliably well, and don't do phone calls. Autistic oversharing is a thing. Don't ask me a question if you don't want me to answer, and please keep in mind that facts are not shaming. I am also on the asexual spectrum. I enjoy nsfw activities, several of them, but do not get attracted to people for that purpose...to my knowledge. This may be a trauma response, or a manifestation of my autism. I will probably never know.
My deal breakers - if you think hitting animals or people who aren't into it is ok, other than situations such as defense of self/innocents/otherwise undeserving or sparring practice...this includes spanking/popping of children especially. Please don't try to befriend me. Just...don't. I've had enough abusive bullsh*t for several lifetimes. Also, if you think raping and mutilating *anyone*, especially children, is an acceptable practice...(like circumcision)....you are creepy and need to leave me alone. These two things have been known to trigger my anxiety/PTSD. I have unfriended people over them. Don't waste my time, please.